In two days I’m leaving for London.
It's an exciting time. In a couple of
months there’s going to be a baby arriving, and my daughter and I have a lot to do together. There’s a quilt to be finished and little woolen
singlets that are still on the needles. A wooden crib has been lovingly
handcrafted and lies waiting. There's so much joy in the process of readiness
and anticipation.
When I first arrive I’ll head into Selfridges, where we’ve decided to meet. I know the pavements will be teeming with people and that everywhere I look there’ll be colour. The city will feel energetic and vibrant.
It’ll look different too. The shop mannequins won’t be
the Islamically correct headless Saudi versions. Neither will advertising posters showing women have
faces pixilated or painted black.
Headless and faceless - a pretty typical Riyadh Mall shop front. |
My daughter and I plan on looking at sewing machines
and then (I’m pretty sure) there’ll be a brief foray to the baby wear
department. If I ask for help, I know I’ll be treated with respect and dignity. Last week a
friend of mine was refused service in a Mobily shop, simply because she
was on her own. If she’d had her husband or son with her, it would have been
different.
When hunger gets the better of us, we’ll
find somewhere to eat. There’ll be no need to walk around to a dingy back
entrance labeled ‘Families Only’ and then find our way to a curtained booth
with opaque glass. There’ll be no need
to consult the prayer time application on my cell phone to make sure we don't
arrive when the doors are locked for prayer. Then too, there’s the menu. I’m
hoping there’ll be chorizo somewhere. It beats camel meat any day.
Our compound with its Colditz like walls. |
Back home I’ll unpack my bag. A little of it’s mine, but a lot more is for someone
else. Bootees, woolen shawls, baby
gowns, feeders, that once my daughter wore and that now she wants to use with
her own baby.
It's that circle of life starting all over
again.
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